Is Loyalty Gone: Why didn't the Princess Want to Kiss the Frog?

Ever wonder why princess Tiana in Disney's Princess and the Frog hesitated to kiss the frog?
Because she was afraid of the outcome! These days marriage, loyalty and faithfulness in a relationship appear to be a joke! How can we people of color hold a relationship down when all loyalty within our standards are gone? No one seems to believe in true love, love at first sight or even soul mates anymore ! These all seem to now be an illusion of a fairytale life. Even the Miss. Charlotte Labouf Tiana's childhood friend had dreams of one day marrying a prince. Why didn't Tiana?
Loyalty, devotion, trustworthiness and responsibility are all things that our relationships are lacking! We must thoroughly bring back love and loyalty to our African American relationships. The "no-snitching" epidemic believe it or not has also put a damper on our mental thinking, yes even in relationships. Men don't know who to trust, pushing away from love, life , and success.
We are not going to point the finger at either male or female for this crisis, but at our values. We must start to value life again and then we can enjoy it with another! We have to change this dilemma or we will all have to go through the same journey and struggles as Tiana did. Is it worth it... Or should we just kiss the frog?